My mind has been on things a little deeper lately and really looking at the things we are asked to go through and wonder what there is to gain from them. It got me into a list of things I've learned...
I've learned first and foremost - there is ALWAYS ALWAYS something to be gained through ANY trial. I've also learned what we view as something very negative going on in our lives - can actually be a positive thing. Brice helped me see that one time when he introduced me to a old story called 'Good luck Bad luck'. I've literally tried to live my life by that philophopy since.
I've also learned there is true value in being honest - but taking care to examine others feelings before you just 'lay it out there' - and to really examine if it's necessary.
I truly value individuals who rejoice with those that rejoice, and mourn with those that mourn. Competition between people, children and material objects is a waste of time and a personal irritation of mine. I've learned how boring and ugly this world would be if we all had the same talents, abilities, and stuff.
I've learned if you look for the bad in people you will find it - and if you look for the good in people you will find it.
I've learned how careful you need to be judging anyone - regardless of ANYTHING they may have done in their past.
I've learned how forgiveness is truly a power. A power that will make you free. I've learned that children can best teach you this concept.
I've learned how important humility is in ANY relationship.
I've learned that selfishness - has astronomical collateral damage.
I've learned that TRUTH is something discovered, not invented. It is something that always was, is and always will be.... and as you search for TRUTH - not looking for something that will merely justify decisions or lifestyles - you will find it.